To the men of my life

Earlier today, I had a conversation with a woman who has become a dear friend to me.  She is kind and loving and very bright but she also struggles with some heavy thoughts and feelings.  In the course of our conversation, she talked of some hurtful and damaging experiences she has had in her life, some of which are tied to men in her life.  It reminded me of a blessing I have reflected on more and more as I age-- I have been blessed to be surrounded by wonderful men.

 

I have four brothers and a brother-in-law who have helped me cultivate a sense of self-respect, lovability and willingness to love, curiosity, humor and confidence.  I have guy friends who reaffirm a sense of joy and fun in life, and are generous with their kindness toward me.  I have a bishop who serves me and loves me and lifts me up even when I don't realize I need to be lifted.  Even my ex-boyfriends are good guys, who were sweet and respectful toward me during break-ups and the following adjustment phase.

Above all else, I have a wonderful father who I love and respect so deeply and dearly.  To me, he is a living example of D&C 121:41-43-- he is truly gentle, loving, kind, pure and without guile.  He's also happy, devout, curious, thoughtful and so many other wonderful things.

To my dad, Nathan, Russell, Garrett, Ben, Danny and all the other men in my life I say thank you.   Thank you for helping me be better by both challenging me and loving me.  Thank you for teaching me what love looks like, in how you treat me and the other women in your life.  You have helped me understand goodness, helped keep me sane, made me laugh and think and... so many other things.  I can't imagine my life without you and am so grateful for each of you.